WTF Am I Going to DoWith My Kids All Summer?

Let’s be real: summer break sounded great… until it actually started. Suddenly, you're a full-time camp counselor, snack distributor, screen time negotiator, and emotional support human—all before noon.

If you’ve ever whispered (or shouted) “WTF am I supposed to do with them for two whole months?”—you’re not alone, and you’re not doing it wrong.

Here’s the truth: summer doesn’t have to be magical. It just has to be manageable. Some days you’ll have energy for beach days and crafts. Other days it’s survival mode—screens, frozen waffles, and everyone in their feelings.

Make space for both.

• Create a simple rhythm. One small activity per day is enough—library, walk, sprinkler, or even just making a mess outside.

• Swap childcare with a trusted friend. A few hours off-duty can be a lifesaver (for both of you).

• Let them be bored. Boredom often leads to creativity (eventually).

• Prioritize rest—for them and you. Kids (and adults!) need downtime to reset. When everyone gets enough rest—whether it’s naps, quiet time, or early bedtimes—everyone feels calmer and copes better. It helps reduce meltdowns, crankiness, and parental burnout. So don’t feel guilty about carving out space for rest; it’s an essential part of summer survival.

• Embrace screen time (within reason). Screens aren’t the enemy—they can be your secret weapon. When you need a break, a few episodes of a favorite show or a game can give you a breather and keep kids safely entertained. The key is setting reasonable limits so screen time complements, not replaces, other activities. Think of screens as a co-parent for a little while—supporting you, not replacing you.

• Plan one solo recharge moment each day. Even if it’s just drinking coffee alone or hiding in the bathroom for five minutes. It counts.

• Loosen the rules a little. Summer can be softer. Less pressure, more grace.

  You’re allowed to feel overwhelmed and love your kids deeply at the same time. Both can exist.

  Most importantly, give yourself grace. Summer parenting is a marathon of sunscreen, snack prep, and emotional agility.

  You’re doing better than you think—even when it feels like chaos.

  Here’s to popsicles for breakfast, imperfect plans, and the occasional miracle of a quiet moment.